Friday, October 15, 2010
Mixed reception to the email sent to family/friends. I was surprised by my mothers side responded quickly and w the exception of one aunt. My fathers side was relatively silent though this will be great-grandchild #2. Only one cousin responded and her response was sweet and excited. Our friends were excited as was DHs extended family. It's hard to figure out what to expect since I don't know anyone that has gone through this... I can only compare it to friends and family that have announced their pregnancys and it's hard not to compare. I guess I'll have to get better at letting things roll off and come up w better/more one liners. This experience though has really shown me that your expectations are often not met by those you have expectations of and those you had little expectation of often surprise you.
Posted by TTABaby at 6:30 PM
Sunday, October 10, 2010
We were specifically directed NOT to clean. It was challenging, I'll admit I cleaned two weeks ago, one of those deep cleans where I cleaned the stove, cars, under couches, dusted, got on hands and knees to wipe floors cleaned. Last weekend I purposefully did not clean. As the social worker was touring our house tonight though I started noticing ALL of the things that were SO dirty!! Oh well.
The interview went well. Our dear birth parent books were between the doors when I got home from work and I immediately opened the package and started to look at it sitting on the porch. I was going to make dinner before she arrived but realized that though for once I remembered to defrost the meat before I left for work we didn't have any pasta. Oh well.
She arrived a few minutes late, loved our cat, liked our dog and we sat down to answer questions. Most of the questions were already answered in our written application (as in past interviews) but she wanted us to elaborate. Its frustrating for me as I know she has the answers, and seriously what parent knows their exact parenting style before having kids. We at least both agree on no spanking. DH is better at answering questions I just felt like telling her to read our application (she did warn us that we may have this reaction). Oh well.
She walked through our house not saying much but writing. Kinda odd. Who knows what she was writing but the fact that she had few questions and little to say hopefully was a good thing. She did mention the no fire extinguisher next to the fire place which during the first interview (the one where she told us everything we needed to do) that fire places didn't need extinguishers only wood burning stoves- while a fire place is not a wood burning stove. oh well.
She left without our books because I wanted to hand write some things as well as sign our names at the end. I made a mistake over one picture and wrote that it was our 2nd not 3rd anniversary trip that the picture was taken on. They will never know so- oh well :)
All the hard work is behind us and now we wait....
Posted by TTABaby at 5:52 PM