Good idea/bad idea

So we thought it would be a fun idea to have our families write their own pages in our dear birth parent book.  In part to help them understand the hard work we have to do in order to get the the point of adopting.  Making the decision to move forward with adoption is a huge decision not because you are choosing to have a child (that decision was often made years before) but because of the financial stress, time stress, and loads of paper work required.  We also wanted them included and to be a part of the process.  The deadline is a week away and only one family member has completed their page (though a second e-mailed me tonight to let me know that theirs just needs to be reviewed).  I hope this added stress is worth it!