tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4463347777992697120.post6037941677567268517..comments2023-07-02T07:07:03.602-07:00Comments on TTABaby: The Sound of SilenceUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4463347777992697120.post-48059542140297426292012-08-02T13:55:30.913-07:002012-08-02T13:55:30.913-07:00I'm going to give it until the end of the year...I'm going to give it until the end of the year. Our last letter in October I will ask when she wants to visit. I know she only had a few weeks to decide on adoption while I waited for years. We have both birthparents full information. They do not know our last name or the city we live in but they have our phone #. We plan on yearly visits... so I'd describe our relationship as a very open semi-open adoption.TTABabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10448579844692674801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4463347777992697120.post-2261918721248821352012-08-01T18:46:25.021-07:002012-08-01T18:46:25.021-07:00Have faith my friend. A lot can happen with time a...Have faith my friend. A lot can happen with time and maturity. While it's possible that your birth mom will never reply to anything, you don't know how seeing the pictures makes her feel. Instead of assuming the worst, just picture it being the highlight of her day and know that you can't control what others do, only how their actions and words make you feel.<br /><br />You're the mother of this darling girl for a reason and through your conversations with her, she'll hopefully make peace with the choices that her birth mother has made. Your job is to protect her and make sure she's safe, and you're doing that.<br /><br />I'd keep praying that you someday get something in return. Have you thought about sending a letter asking her if she wants to proceed with an open (or is it semi-open) adoption? Have you asked already? Who knows how hard it is for her to see pictures... maybe she doesn't have the strength yet to reply. It may take years, and it may never come. I'd at least ask her if she wants you to continue, and if she doesn't reply, keep sending and keep praying.<br /><br />It's all you can do.Cat's Litterboxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15383480756748575738noreply@blogger.com